[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/ty-si-ale-zly\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/ty-si-ale-zly\/","headline":"Ty si ale zl\u00fd!","name":"Ty si ale zl\u00fd!","description":"Takto sa \u010dasto vyjadrujeme na adresu mal\u00fdch, ale aj v\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00edch det\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 nerobia to, \u010do sa od nich o\u010dak\u00e1va. \u010ci u\u017e s\u00fa to na\u0161e vlastn\u00e9 deti alebo deti na\u0161ich zn\u00e1mych, susedov \u010di deti v \u0161kole. Ale naskyt\u00e1 sa tu ot\u00e1zka. S\u00fa deti naozaj tak\u00e9 zl\u00e9? Ako je vlastne mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee rob\u00ed presn\u00fd opak toho, \u010do &hellip; <div class=\"link-more text-center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/ty-si-ale-zly\/\" class=\"more-link py-2 px-4\">Read More<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> \"Ty si ale zl\u00fd!\"<\/span><\/a><\/div>","datePublished":"2017-02-27","dateModified":"2023-04-25","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/390ba47df5874845ef3762ac16ecd0a67f4e30c13cbb7c7ee444ade303aa885b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/390ba47df5874845ef3762ac16ecd0a67f4e30c13cbb7c7ee444ade303aa885b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"adoos.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a280337_w2013_t1493324527.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a280337_w2013_t1493324527.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/ty-si-ale-zly\/","wordCount":649,"articleBody":"Takto sa \u010dasto vyjadrujeme na adresu mal\u00fdch, ale aj v\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00edch det\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 nerobia to, \u010do sa od nich o\u010dak\u00e1va. \u010ci u\u017e s\u00fa to na\u0161e vlastn\u00e9 deti alebo deti na\u0161ich zn\u00e1mych, susedov \u010di deti v \u0161kole. Ale naskyt\u00e1 sa tu ot\u00e1zka. S\u00fa deti naozaj tak\u00e9 zl\u00e9? Ako je vlastne mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee rob\u00ed presn\u00fd opak toho, \u010do od neho chceme? Ako je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee v\u00f4bec nere\u0161pektuje n\u00e1zory a\u00a0po\u017eiadavky dospel\u00fdch? Narodilo sa tak\u00e9? Asi nie, pokia\u013e neberieme do \u00favahy r\u00f4zne poruchy spr\u00e1vania. Kde sa teda stala chyba, \u017ee m\u00e1me kopec det\u00ed, ktor\u00ed nezdravia, nad\u00e1vaj\u00fa, bij\u00fa sa, nezvl\u00e1daj\u00fa \u0161kolu alebo do nej nechodia?\u00a0Niekde sa asi stala chybaAk sa pozriem okolo seba a\u00a0poprem\u00fd\u0161\u013eam nad v\u0161etk\u00fdmi mlad\u00fdmi \u013eu\u010fmi alebo de\u0165mi, o\u00a0ktor\u00fdch sa niekedy hovorilo v\u00a0s\u00favislosti s\u00a0ich nevhodn\u00fdm spr\u00e1van\u00edm, nevych\u00e1dza mi ni\u010d in\u00e9 ako kon\u0161tatova\u0165, \u017ee v\u0161etky maj\u00fa jedno spolo\u010dn\u00e9 &#8211; probl\u00e9my v\u00a0rodine, rozpad\u00e1vaj\u00facu sa rodinu, h\u00e1dky medzi rodi\u010dmi a\u00a0podobne. Deti s\u00fa ve\u013emi senzit\u00edvne a\u00a0vn\u00edmav\u00e9 na v\u0161etko, \u010do sa okolo nich deje. Ich z\u00e1kladnou potrebou je c\u00edti\u0165 sa bezpe\u010dne a\u00a0by\u0165 milovan\u00fd a\u00a0ak nie\u010do z\u00a0toho ch\u00fdba, za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00fa si to vy\u017eadova\u0165 a\u00a0upozor\u0148ova\u0165 na seba. A\u00a0ak si dospel\u00ed nev\u0161\u00edmaj\u00fa ich tich\u00e9 prosby, za\u010dn\u00fa kri\u010da\u0165 a\u00a0to i\u00a0v\u00a0prenesenom zmysle slova, teda robi\u0165 veci so z\u00e1merom, aby si ich niekto v\u0161imol.\u00a0&#8230;ke\u010f si rodina nevie da\u0165 rady so \u0161kolk\u00e1romMlad\u00ed \u013eudia, ktor\u00ed \u017eij\u00fa ka\u017ed\u00fd v\u00a0inom meste s\u00fa rodi\u010dmi mal\u00e9ho \u0161k\u00f4lkara. Na chlapca sa ale s\u0165a\u017euj\u00fa u\u010dite\u013eky v\u00a0\u0161k\u00f4lke, preto\u017ee bije deti, berie im hra\u010dky, nere\u0161pektuje pokyny. Rovnako sa spr\u00e1va aj doma, \u010di u\u017e je s\u00a0mamou alebo otcom. \u017dije na strieda\u010dku s\u00a0oboma. M\u00e1 v\u0161etko, \u010do si za\u017eiada. A\u00a0predsa je neposedn\u00fd, drz\u00fd&#8230;skr\u00e1tka zl\u00fd. Teda za tak\u00e9ho ho ozna\u010duj\u00fa. Pre\u010do asi? Asi preto, \u017ee chlapec vlastne ani nevie, kde b\u00fdva. Vid\u00ed, ako na seba otec a\u00a0mama zazeraj\u00fa, ke\u010f sa stretn\u00fa a\u00a0d\u00e1 sa poveda\u0165, \u017ee iba kop\u00edruje model ich spr\u00e1vania.\u00a0&#8230;nezvl\u00e1dnute\u013en\u00fd \u0161kol\u00e1kV\u00a0triede na z\u00e1kladnej \u0161kole je chlapec, ktor\u00fd je zn\u00e1my svojou drzos\u0165ou a\u00a0ignor\u00e1ciou v\u0161etk\u00fdch a\u00a0v\u0161etk\u00e9ho. Na hodin\u00e1ch je nes\u00fastreden\u00fd, vyru\u0161uje a\u00a0rob\u00ed \u201enaschv\u00e1ly\u201c u\u010dite\u013eom. U\u010dite\u013eka, ktor\u00fa sa na hodine pok\u00fasil vyprovokova\u0165 ho namiesto za dvere \u010di do riadite\u013ene zavolala po\u010das prest\u00e1vky k\u00a0sebe do kabinetu. U\u017e nebol t\u00fdm hrdinom, ak\u00fdm sa robil na hodine. Na ot\u00e1zku, pre\u010do to rob\u00ed, ale neodpovedal. Po prest\u00e1vke, str\u00e1venej v\u00a0tichom kabinete ho u\u010dite\u013eka v\u00a0r\u00e1mci \u201etrestu\u201c zavolala, aby jej po vyu\u010dovan\u00ed pomohol s\u00a0pripravovan\u00edm novej n\u00e1stenky.Hoci ne\u010dakala, pri\u0161iel. Popri pr\u00e1ci za\u010dala s\u00a0nez\u00e1v\u00e4zn\u00fdm rozhovorom, ktor\u00fd sa z\u00a0ni\u010doho ni\u010d obr\u00e1til na \u00faprimn\u00fa v\u00fdpove\u010f chlapca. U\u010dite\u013eka sa v\u00a0\u0148om dozvedela, \u017ee mal v\u010dera \u0165a\u017ek\u00fd de\u0148, preto\u017ee mama, ktor\u00e1 sama vychov\u00e1va e\u0161te mlad\u0161ieho brata nemala na zaplatenie elektriny a tak\u00a0zostali bez svetla, chladni\u010dky i\u00a0teplej vody. Otec neprejavuje z\u00e1ujem a\u00a0tak sa musia preb\u00edja\u0165 sami. Mlad\u00fd \u010dlovek, ktor\u00fd si nevie da\u0165 rady so svoj\u00edm tr\u00e1pen\u00edm sa takto pok\u00fa\u0161al vola\u0165 o\u00a0pomoc.Neh\u00e1d\u017eme v\u0161etky deti do jedn\u00e9ho vreca a\u00a0neodsudzujme ich za to, ak\u00e9 s\u00fa. Za ka\u017ed\u00fdm sa toti\u017e skr\u00fdva in\u00fd pr\u00edbeh.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.5\/5 - (4 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Ty si ale zl\u00fd!","item":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/ty-si-ale-zly\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]