[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/surodenec-spojenec-ci-nepriatel\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/surodenec-spojenec-ci-nepriatel\/","headline":"S\u00farodenec- spojenec, \u010di nepriate\u013e?","name":"S\u00farodenec- spojenec, \u010di nepriate\u013e?","description":"S\u00a0touto ot\u00e1zkou sa tr\u00e1pia viacer\u00ed rodi\u010dia, ktor\u00ed o\u010dak\u00e1vaj\u00fa pr\u00edchod druh\u00e9ho \u010di \u010fal\u0161ieho potomka. Ako asi bude star\u0161\u00ed s\u00farodenec reagova\u0165? Bude ma\u0165 mlad\u0161ieho r\u00e1d? Bude na neho \u017eiarli\u0165? Pr\u00edjme ho \u010di nie? Odpovede na tieto ot\u00e1zky sa rodi\u010dia dozvedia zvy\u010dajne a\u017e po naroden\u00ed \u010fal\u0161ieho die\u0165a\u0165a. Je ale dobr\u00e9, ak je prvoroden\u00fd s\u00farodenec na t\u00fato zmenu pripraven\u00fd. &hellip; <div class=\"link-more text-center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/surodenec-spojenec-ci-nepriatel\/\" class=\"more-link py-2 px-4\">Read More<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> \"S\u00farodenec- spojenec, \u010di nepriate\u013e?\"<\/span><\/a><\/div>","datePublished":"2018-04-05","dateModified":"2023-04-25","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/390ba47df5874845ef3762ac16ecd0a67f4e30c13cbb7c7ee444ade303aa885b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/390ba47df5874845ef3762ac16ecd0a67f4e30c13cbb7c7ee444ade303aa885b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"adoos.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a288367_w2013_t1528216425.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a288367_w2013_t1528216425.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/surodenec-spojenec-ci-nepriatel\/","wordCount":620,"articleBody":"S\u00a0touto ot\u00e1zkou sa tr\u00e1pia viacer\u00ed rodi\u010dia, ktor\u00ed o\u010dak\u00e1vaj\u00fa pr\u00edchod druh\u00e9ho \u010di \u010fal\u0161ieho potomka. Ako asi bude star\u0161\u00ed s\u00farodenec reagova\u0165? Bude ma\u0165 mlad\u0161ieho r\u00e1d? Bude na neho \u017eiarli\u0165? Pr\u00edjme ho \u010di nie? Odpovede na tieto ot\u00e1zky sa rodi\u010dia dozvedia zvy\u010dajne a\u017e po naroden\u00ed \u010fal\u0161ieho die\u0165a\u0165a. Je ale dobr\u00e9, ak je prvoroden\u00fd s\u00farodenec na t\u00fato zmenu pripraven\u00fd.\u00a0Treba sa rozpr\u00e1va\u0165 a vysvet\u013eova\u0165Je jedno, ak\u00fd vekov\u00fd rozdiel bude medzi de\u0165mi. Je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee narodenie b\u00e1b\u00e4tka ja ve\u013ek\u00e1 udalos\u0165 a\u00a0z\u00e1rove\u0148 aj obdobie ve\u013ek\u00fdch zmien v\u00a0rodine. Tieto zmeny sa t\u00fdkaj\u00fa tak rodi\u010dov, ako aj star\u0161\u00edch det\u00ed. Ak bolo die\u0165a doteraz v\u00a0rodine jedin\u00e9, malo v\u0161etku pozornos\u0165 rodi\u010dov len pre seba, bolo stredobodom pozornosti je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee si na t\u00fato \u00falohu \u201emil\u00e1\u010dika\u201c zvyklo. Ak bolo naviazan\u00e9 na matku a\u00a0tr\u00e1vilo s\u00a0\u0148ou v\u0161etok svoj \u010das, bude pr\u00edchod s\u00farodenca obrovskou zmenou, a\u00a0tak trochu aj \u0161okom. U\u017e odchod mamy do p\u00f4rodnice a\u00a0fakt, \u017ee s\u00a0\u0148ou nem\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 nepretr\u017eite, ak na to bolo doteraz zvyknut\u00e9 je zmenou, ktor\u00fa mus\u00ed preklen\u00fa\u0165 a\u00a0zvl\u00e1dnu\u0165 ako prv\u00fa.N\u00e1sledne pr\u00edchod b\u00e1b\u00e4tka a\u00a0v\u0161etka mamina pozornos\u0165 s\u00fastreden\u00e1 na\u0148 je \u010fal\u0161iu zmenou. Toto v\u0161etko die\u0165a vn\u00edma a\u00a0nie v\u017edy pozit\u00edvne. Preto aby toho na die\u0165a nebolo ve\u013ea, je potren\u00e9 sa s\u00a0die\u0165a\u0165om rozpr\u00e1va\u0165 a\u00a0pripravi\u0165 na v\u0161etky zmeny, ktor\u00e9 ho \u010dakaj\u00fa. U\u017e po\u010das tehotenstva je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 star\u0161ieho s\u00farodenca pripravova\u0165 na to, \u017ee do rodiny pribudne nov\u00fd s\u00farodenec. Nie n\u00e1silne, ale veku primerane vysvetli\u0165, \u017ee v\u00a0mami\u010dkinom bru\u0161ku je ukryt\u00e9 b\u00e1b\u00e4tko, s\u00a0ktor\u00fdm sa m\u00f4\u017ee brat \u010di sestra rozpr\u00e1va\u0165, hladka\u0165 ho \u010di mu spieva\u0165.Takto si die\u0165a vytvor\u00ed pozit\u00edvny vz\u0165ah k\u00a0nast\u00e1vaj\u00facemu s\u00farodencovi e\u0161te pred t\u00fdm, ako pr\u00edde na svet. Ak je to mo\u017en\u00e9, je fajn zobra\u0165 ho raz so sebou aj na sonografick\u00e9 vy\u0161etrenie alebo uk\u00e1za\u0165 fotky z\u00a0neho, aby na vlastn\u00e9 o\u010di videlo, \u017ee b\u00e1b\u00e4tko v\u00a0maminom bru\u0161ku je naozaj skuto\u010dn\u00e9, rastie a \u201ete\u0161\u00ed sa\u201c na star\u0161ieho brata \u010di sestru. Po pr\u00edchode z\u00a0p\u00f4rodnice s\u00farodencov zozn\u00e1mi\u0165 a\u00a0star\u0161iemu vysvetli\u0165, \u017ee aj ke\u010f bude pravdepodobne viac pozornosti venovanej b\u00e1b\u00e4tku, star\u0161\u00ed s\u00farodenec nebude nikdy na druhej ko\u013eaji a\u00a0nikdy nebude menej d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fdm. Die\u0165a potrebuje c\u00edti\u0165 l\u00e1sku a\u00a0to, \u017ee je st\u00e1le rovnako d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 ako pred t\u00fdm. Preto, ke\u010f je to len tro\u0161ku mo\u017en\u00e9, sk\u00faste si vyhradi\u0165 aspo\u0148 p\u00e1r min\u00fat \u010dasu, ktor\u00e9 venujete len star\u0161iemu die\u0165a\u0165u, aby neust\u00e1le c\u00edtilo, \u017ee je pre v\u00e1s st\u00e1le rovnako d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9.\u00a0Nechajte ho pom\u00e1ha\u0165 v\u00e1mDeti rodi\u010dom ve\u013emi radi pom\u00e1haj\u00fa. Nechajte ich teda pom\u00f4c\u0165 v\u00e1m s\u00a0t\u00fdm, \u010do zvl\u00e1dnu. Podanie plienky, prinesenie cuml\u00edka \u010di hrk\u00e1lky alebo f\u013ea\u0161ky s\u00a0mliekom sp\u00f4sob\u00ed, \u017ee star\u0161\u00ed s\u00farodenec sa bude c\u00edti\u0165 d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fdm a\u00a0u\u017eito\u010dn\u00fdm a\u00a0vy ho za to, samozrejme, n\u00e1le\u017eite pochv\u00e1\u013ete. Vytv\u00e1ra\u0165 medzi s\u00farodencami dobr\u00e9 vz\u0165ahy je niekedy n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9, ale treba na tom pracova\u0165 u\u017e od \u00fatleho detstva. Pokia\u013e tomu tak bude, bud\u00fa spolu dobre vych\u00e1dza\u0165 aj v\u00a0dospelosti.\u00a0                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.7\/5 - (7 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"S\u00farodenec- spojenec, \u010di nepriate\u013e?","item":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/surodenec-spojenec-ci-nepriatel\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]