[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/ked-nie-je-tak-ako-by-som-chcela\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/ked-nie-je-tak-ako-by-som-chcela\/","headline":"Ke\u010f nie je tak, ako by som chcela","name":"Ke\u010f nie je tak, ako by som chcela","description":"Asi sa s\u00a0nimi u\u017e stretol ka\u017ed\u00fd. S\u00a0\u013eu\u010fmi, ktor\u00ed ostatn\u00fdch vo svojom okol\u00ed manipuluj\u00fa. Mo\u017eno si to oni sami neuvedomuj\u00fa, ale na svoje okolie p\u00f4sobia n\u00e1tlakovo, \u010domu ve\u013ea \u013eud\u00ed pod\u013eahne. Predstavte si situ\u00e1ciu, ke\u010f ste kone\u010dne do\u0161li domov z\u00a0pr\u00e1ce, u\u0165ahan\u00e1, s\u00a0n\u00e1kupmi a\u00a0net\u00fa\u017eite po ni\u010dom inom ako \u013eahn\u00fa\u0165 si, vylo\u017ei\u0165 si nohy a\u00a0oddychova\u0165. Vtom zvon\u00ed telef\u00f3n a\u00a0na &hellip; <div class=\"link-more text-center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/ked-nie-je-tak-ako-by-som-chcela\/\" class=\"more-link py-2 px-4\">Read More<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> \"Ke\u010f nie je tak, ako by som chcela\"<\/span><\/a><\/div>","datePublished":"2016-11-30","dateModified":"2023-04-25","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/390ba47df5874845ef3762ac16ecd0a67f4e30c13cbb7c7ee444ade303aa885b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/390ba47df5874845ef3762ac16ecd0a67f4e30c13cbb7c7ee444ade303aa885b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"adoos.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a279480_w2013_t1599401430.png","url":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a279480_w2013_t1599401430.png","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/ked-nie-je-tak-ako-by-som-chcela\/","about":["\u017deny"],"wordCount":516,"articleBody":"Asi sa s\u00a0nimi u\u017e stretol ka\u017ed\u00fd. S\u00a0\u013eu\u010fmi, ktor\u00ed ostatn\u00fdch vo svojom okol\u00ed manipuluj\u00fa. Mo\u017eno si to oni sami neuvedomuj\u00fa, ale na svoje okolie p\u00f4sobia n\u00e1tlakovo, \u010domu ve\u013ea \u013eud\u00ed pod\u013eahne. Predstavte si situ\u00e1ciu, ke\u010f ste kone\u010dne do\u0161li domov z\u00a0pr\u00e1ce, u\u0165ahan\u00e1, s\u00a0n\u00e1kupmi a\u00a0net\u00fa\u017eite po ni\u010dom inom ako \u013eahn\u00fa\u0165 si, vylo\u017ei\u0165 si nohy a\u00a0oddychova\u0165.Vtom zvon\u00ed telef\u00f3n a\u00a0na druhej strane vol\u00e1 kamar\u00e1tka, ktor\u00e1 v\u00e1s pros\u00ed, \u010di by ste jej nezabehli nie\u010do k\u00fapi\u0165, preto\u017ee ona bude dlh\u0161ie v\u00a0pr\u00e1ci a\u00a0sama nest\u00edha. Aj napriek \u201eblikaj\u00facej kontrolke\u201c vo va\u0161ej hlave, ktor\u00e1 signalizuje vy\u010derpanos\u0165 sa rozhodnete ten n\u00e1kup urobi\u0165, preto\u017ee nechcete po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 prosenie va\u0161ej kamar\u00e1tky a\u00a0chcete sa vyhn\u00fa\u0165 i\u00a0v\u00fd\u010ditk\u00e1m vlastn\u00e9ho svedomia, \u017ee ste nepomohli.Aj napriek svojej \u00fanave, aj napriek svojim pl\u00e1nom. Alebo ste si s\u00a0rodinou napl\u00e1novali pekn\u00fd v\u00edkend, ke\u010f sa ozv\u00fa rodi\u010dia alebo svokrovci s\u00a0t\u00fdm, \u017ee v\u00e1s\u00a0 chc\u00fa vidie\u0165. Ich argumenty s\u00fa silnej\u0161ie ako tie va\u0161e a\u00a0tak sa podvol\u00edte. Nem\u00e1te z\u00a0toho s\u00edce dobr\u00fd pocit, ale urob\u00edte to. Ale pre\u010do?\u00a0Pre\u010do n\u00e1m to na\u0161i bl\u00edzki robia?Mo\u017eno sa sp\u00fdtate, pre\u010do maj\u00fa na\u0161i bl\u00edzki t\u00fa moc, \u017ee n\u00e1m dok\u00e1\u017eu obr\u00e1ti\u0165 na\u0161e pl\u00e1ny hore nohami? Ako je to mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee nevieme n\u00e1js\u0165 tie spr\u00e1vne slov\u00e1 na to, aby sme im vysvetlili, \u017ee nechceme urobi\u0165 tak, ako si to oni predstavuj\u00fa? Je to preto, lebo im t\u00fa moc d\u00e1vame. Je ist\u00e9, \u017ee pokia\u013e by i\u0161lo o\u00a0cudzieho \u010dloveka, ktor\u00fd n\u00e1m nie je bl\u00edzky, ur\u010dite by sa n\u00e1m h\u013eadali argumenty ove\u013ea \u013eah\u0161ie. Ale pokia\u013e ide o\u00a0\u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00fdch m\u00e1me rady, sme hlavne my \u017eeny ove\u013ea citlivej\u0161ie a\u00a0nedok\u00e1\u017eeme poveda\u0165 nie.\u00a0Nenecha\u0165 sa vyu\u017e\u00edva\u0165Je samozrejm\u00e9, \u017ee by sme si mali pom\u00e1ha\u0165. Za ka\u017ed\u00fdch okolnost\u00ed. Aj ke\u010f druh\u00ed pomoc ne\u017eiadaj\u00fa a\u00a0to viac, ke\u010f ju potrebuj\u00fa. Treba si ale uvedomi\u0165, \u017ee niektor\u00ed vedia svoje okolie poriadne manipulova\u0165 a\u00a0dokonca aj vyu\u017e\u00edva\u0165 vo svoj prospech. D\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 je uvedomi\u0165 si, \u010di je situ\u00e1cia skuto\u010dne tak\u00e1 v\u00e1\u017ena a\u00a0po\u017eiadavka tak\u00e1 d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e1, aby ste odlo\u017eili v\u0161etky svoje pl\u00e1ny a\u00a0vlastn\u00e9 potreby bokom, len aby ste vyhoveli niekomu in\u00e9mu. Rovnako si treba v\u0161\u00edma\u0165 aj to, \u010di sa \u201e\u017eiadosti o\u00a0pomoc\u201c od jedn\u00e9ho \u010dloveka akosi nehromadia a\u00a0vy nie ste len manipulovan\u00e1, ale aj zneu\u017e\u00edvan\u00e1.\u00a0Vedie\u0165 poveda\u0165 nieAj ke\u010f sa to mo\u017eno \u0165a\u017eko uskuto\u010d\u0148uje, mali by sme vedie\u0165 svojmu okoliu da\u0165 najavo, ke\u010f s\u00a0nie\u010d\u00edm nes\u00fahlas\u00edme. Nie ostro, ale dostato\u010dne d\u00f4razne a\u00a0asert\u00edvne da\u0165 najavo, \u017ee si s\u00a0vami nem\u00f4\u017ee robi\u0165 ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010do chce.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.9\/5 - (7 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Ke\u010f nie je tak, ako by som chcela","item":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/ked-nie-je-tak-ako-by-som-chcela\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]