[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/ked-mu-ani-vlastna-mama-nerozumie\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/ked-mu-ani-vlastna-mama-nerozumie\/","headline":"Ke\u010f mu ani vlastn\u00e1 mama nerozumie","name":"Ke\u010f mu ani vlastn\u00e1 mama nerozumie","description":"V\u0161etky mamy si pri svojich de\u0165och u\u017eili alebo u\u017e\u00edvaj\u00fa r\u00f4zne chv\u00edle. Raz radostn\u00e9, inokedy menej. V\u0161etci rodi\u010dia chc\u00fa, aby ich de\u0165\u00farence boli zdrav\u00e9 a\u00a0v\u00a0pohode a\u00a0\u010do najviac sa na tento svet usmievali. Ale tak, ako aj u\u00a0dospel\u00e1kov, nie v\u017edy maj\u00fa deti d\u00f4vod smia\u0165 sa a\u00a0to n\u00e1s rodi\u010dov tr\u00e1pi. O\u00a0to hor\u0161ie je, ke\u010f je die\u0165a vo veku, &hellip; <div class=\"link-more text-center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/ked-mu-ani-vlastna-mama-nerozumie\/\" class=\"more-link py-2 px-4\">Read More<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> \"Ke\u010f mu ani vlastn\u00e1 mama nerozumie\"<\/span><\/a><\/div>","datePublished":"2017-02-27","dateModified":"2023-04-25","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/390ba47df5874845ef3762ac16ecd0a67f4e30c13cbb7c7ee444ade303aa885b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/390ba47df5874845ef3762ac16ecd0a67f4e30c13cbb7c7ee444ade303aa885b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"adoos.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a280335_w2013_t1493324220.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a280335_w2013_t1493324220.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/ked-mu-ani-vlastna-mama-nerozumie\/","wordCount":627,"articleBody":"V\u0161etky mamy si pri svojich de\u0165och u\u017eili alebo u\u017e\u00edvaj\u00fa r\u00f4zne chv\u00edle. Raz radostn\u00e9, inokedy menej. V\u0161etci rodi\u010dia chc\u00fa, aby ich de\u0165\u00farence boli zdrav\u00e9 a\u00a0v\u00a0pohode a\u00a0\u010do najviac sa na tento svet usmievali. Ale tak, ako aj u\u00a0dospel\u00e1kov, nie v\u017edy maj\u00fa deti d\u00f4vod smia\u0165 sa a\u00a0to n\u00e1s rodi\u010dov tr\u00e1pi.O\u00a0to hor\u0161ie je, ke\u010f je die\u0165a vo veku, \u017ee e\u0161te nevie hovori\u0165 a\u00a0vyjadri\u0165, \u010do ho tr\u00e1pi alebo \u010do by chcelo. V\u00a0obdob\u00ed medzi druh\u00fdm a\u017e \u0161tvrt\u00fdm rokom \u017eivota die\u0165a\u0165a, prech\u00e1dzaj\u00fa na\u0161e ratolesti d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fdmi psychick\u00fdmi zmenami, ktor\u00e9 sa \u010dasto prejavuj\u00fa detsk\u00fdm spr\u00e1van\u00edm, ktor\u00e9 rodi\u010dom neb\u00fdva ve\u013emi po v\u00f4li. Toto obdobie niekedy naz\u00fdvame aj obdob\u00edm vzdoru, pod\u013ea toho, \u017ee deti \u010dasto prejavuj\u00fa svoje city hnevom, pla\u010dom a\u00a0\u010fal\u0161\u00edmi v\u00fdlevmi svojich em\u00f3ci\u00ed.\u00a0Kri\u010d\u00edm, hnev\u00e1m sa, nerozumiete mi!Nejedna mamina si u\u017e pre\u017eila situ\u00e1ciu, ke\u010f sa s\u00a0vre\u0161\u0165aj\u00facim die\u0165a\u0165om pon\u00e1h\u013eala domov aby sa vyhla v\u0161etk\u00fdm zvedav\u00fdm poh\u013eadom, pln\u00fdm nepochopenia a\u00a0v\u00fd\u010ditky: \u201e\u010co to s\u00a0t\u00fdm mal\u00fdm rob\u00edte, ke\u010f tak \u00fabo\u017eiatko pla\u010de?\u201c A\u00a0pritom \u0161lo len o\u00a0to, \u017ee ste drobca vzali domov z\u00a0ihriska, preto\u017ee je \u010das na jedlo \u010di sp\u00e1nok alebo ste mu chceli vysvetli\u0165, \u017ee piesok sa neh\u00e1d\u017ee na ostatn\u00e9 deti. \u00c1no, d\u00f4vodov b\u00fdva ve\u013ea a\u00a0mamy sa pre tieto drobn\u00e9 nezhody \u010dasto c\u00edtia ako zbit\u00e9 a\u00a0neschopn\u00e9.\u00a0\u010co robi\u0165?Ke\u010f si dnes viacer\u00ed\u00a0 z\u00a0n\u00e1s spomen\u00fa na svoje detstvo a\u00a0pr\u00edstup svojich rodi\u010dov k\u00a0v\u00fdchove, platilo v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou pravidlo, \u017ee \u010do povedia mama alebo otec jednoducho plat\u00ed. Niekedy to fungovalo, inokedy nie. Niekedy ale z\u00a0t\u00fdch radik\u00e1lnych v\u00fdchovn\u00fdch met\u00f3d, pri ktor\u00fdch die\u0165a nemohlo vyjadri\u0165 svoj n\u00e1zor vyr\u00e1stli \u013eudia, ktor\u00fdm to zostalo aj v\u00a0dospelosti. Nemaj\u00fa \u017eiadnu seba\u00factu, vlastn\u00fa hrdos\u0165 a\u00a0nechaj\u00fa sebou manipulova\u0165 ostatn\u00fdmi.Treba n\u00e1js\u0165 vo v\u00fdchove zlat\u00fa stredn\u00fa cestu, ktorou svoje deti povedieme tak, aby mali re\u0161pekt pred dospel\u00fdmi, ale rovnako im umo\u017eni\u0165 i\u00a0vyjadri\u0165 sa. U\u017e pri mal\u00fdch de\u0165och by bolo fajn v\u017ei\u0165 sa do ich ko\u017ee a\u00a0pozrie\u0165 sa na to, ako by ste sa c\u00edtili vy, ke\u010f by v\u00e1s niekto nasilu vytrhol z\u00a0\u010dinnosti, ktor\u00e1 v\u00e1s bav\u00ed. Preto \u010dasto na ihrisk\u00e1ch vid\u00edme o\u00a0zem sa h\u00e1d\u017euce deti, ktor\u00e9 mamy nasilu vle\u010d\u00fa domov. A\u00a0pritom by mo\u017eno sta\u010dilo die\u0165a upozorni\u0165 na to, \u017ee o\u00a0kr\u00e1tky \u010das sa p\u00f4jde domov. Nech si dokon\u010d\u00ed to, \u010do m\u00e1 a\u00a0potom od\u00eddete. \u00a0\u00a0Vysvet\u013eova\u0165, vysvet\u013eova\u0165, vysvet\u013eova\u0165Pri v\u0161etkom, \u010do s\u00a0de\u0165mi rob\u00edte alebo od nich chcete je potrebn\u00e9 s\u00a0nimi komunikova\u0165. Mo\u017eno sa to berie ako otrepan\u00e1 fr\u00e1za, \u017ee komunik\u00e1cia je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e1, ale je to tak.\u00a0 A dvojn\u00e1sobne to plat\u00ed pri de\u0165och. Aj pri t\u00fdch, ktor\u00e9 nevedia rozpr\u00e1va\u0165, preto\u017ee aj ke\u010f si to \u010dasto neuvedomujeme, oni n\u00e1m dobre rozumej\u00fa a\u00a0vedia pochopi\u0165, \u010do od nich chceme. Treba im to len vysvetli\u0165 sp\u00f4sobom, ktor\u00fd im bude bl\u00edzky a\u00a0da\u0165 im \u010das na to, aby sa vedeli prisp\u00f4sobi\u0165. Niekedy pom\u00f4\u017ee, ak sa sami vc\u00edtime do ich ko\u017ee a\u00a0predstav\u00edme si, ako by sme reagovali, alebo \u010do by n\u00e1m pomohlo reagova\u0165 inak. Je to len o\u00a0trpezlivosti a vz\u00e1jomnom porozumen\u00ed.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.4\/5 - (8 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Ke\u010f mu ani vlastn\u00e1 mama nerozumie","item":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/ked-mu-ani-vlastna-mama-nerozumie\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]