[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/cesta-do-hlbin-pubertiakovej-duse\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/cesta-do-hlbin-pubertiakovej-duse\/","headline":"Cesta do hlb\u00edn pubertiakovej du\u0161e&#8230;","name":"Cesta do hlb\u00edn pubertiakovej du\u0161e&#8230;","description":"V\u0161etci sme si t\u00fdm pre\u0161li. Ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 za sebou obdobie dospievania. U\u00a0niekoho bolo pokojn\u00e9, u\u00a0in\u00e9ho b\u00farliv\u00e9. Pokia\u013e sme ho pre\u017eili v\u00a0zdrav\u00ed a\u00a0bez ujmy, je to fajn. \u010casto sa radi zasmejeme na tom, ke\u010f si spomenieme, \u010do v\u0161etko sme povyv\u00e1dzali. Ale ke\u010f sa toto \u017eivotn\u00e9 obdobie a \u201evyv\u00e1dzanie\u201c t\u00fdka na\u0161ich det\u00ed, pozer\u00e1me sa na to u\u017e &hellip; <div class=\"link-more text-center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/cesta-do-hlbin-pubertiakovej-duse\/\" class=\"more-link py-2 px-4\">Read More<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> \"Cesta do hlb\u00edn pubertiakovej du\u0161e&#8230;\"<\/span><\/a><\/div>","datePublished":"2017-02-27","dateModified":"2023-04-25","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/390ba47df5874845ef3762ac16ecd0a67f4e30c13cbb7c7ee444ade303aa885b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/390ba47df5874845ef3762ac16ecd0a67f4e30c13cbb7c7ee444ade303aa885b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"adoos.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a280336_w2013_t1493324380.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a280336_w2013_t1493324380.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/cesta-do-hlbin-pubertiakovej-duse\/","wordCount":531,"articleBody":"V\u0161etci sme si t\u00fdm pre\u0161li. Ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 za sebou obdobie dospievania. U\u00a0niekoho bolo pokojn\u00e9, u\u00a0in\u00e9ho b\u00farliv\u00e9. Pokia\u013e sme ho pre\u017eili v\u00a0zdrav\u00ed a\u00a0bez ujmy, je to fajn. \u010casto sa radi zasmejeme na tom, ke\u010f si spomenieme, \u010do v\u0161etko sme povyv\u00e1dzali. Ale ke\u010f sa toto \u017eivotn\u00e9 obdobie a \u201evyv\u00e1dzanie\u201c t\u00fdka na\u0161ich det\u00ed, pozer\u00e1me sa na to u\u017e tro\u0161ku inak. Ve\u013ea rodi\u010dov sa u\u00a0dospievaj\u00facich det\u00ed stret\u00e1va s\u00a0t\u00fdm, \u017ee maj\u00fa pocit, akoby sa im ich ratolesti vz\u010fa\u013eovali. Akoby sa u\u017e nec\u00edtili dobre v\u00a0ich bl\u00edzkosti. \u00c1no, je \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 zmieri\u0165 sa s\u00a0t\u00fdm, \u017ee ten mal\u00fd drobec, ktor\u00fd bol len doned\u00e1vna odk\u00e1zan\u00fd iba na n\u00e1s pomaly dospieva. \u010co sa odor\u00e1va\u00a0 v\u00a0jeho \u017eivote?\u010co pre\u017e\u00edva? Ako mu vlastne pom\u00f4c\u0165, ke\u010f ani nie je ochotn\u00fd zd\u00f4veri\u0165 sa?To s\u00fa ot\u00e1zky, ktor\u00e9 si kladie ve\u013ea rodi\u010dov. Naozaj je \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 pom\u00f4c\u0165 niekomu, kto o\u00a0pomoc nestoj\u00ed, o\u00a0to viac, ke\u010f ide o\u00a0vlastn\u00e9 die\u0165a. Ale ako je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee die\u0165a nechce pomoc od rodi\u010da? Ako je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee sa nechce rozpr\u00e1va\u0165? A\u00a0je to vlastne norm\u00e1lne? \u00c1no, je. Hlavne v\u00a0tom pr\u00edpade, \u017ee nebolo vo zvyku rozpr\u00e1va\u0165 sa v\u00a0rodine u\u017e pred t\u00fdm. Ne\u010dakajme od pubertiaka, \u017ee sa zrazu posad\u00ed ved\u013ea n\u00e1s a\u00a0bude sa n\u00e1m zd\u00f4verova\u0165, ke\u010f nikdy neza\u017eil to, \u017ee by sa to tak dialo od jeho \u00fatleho detstva.Pokia\u013e sa s\u00a0de\u0165mi nerozpr\u00e1vame od mali\u010dka a\u00a0ned\u00e1vame im najavo svoj z\u00e1ujem o\u00a0radosti a\u00a0starosti, ur\u010dite to nepr\u00edde len tak odrazu. Je to pre nich neprirodzen\u00e9 a\u00a0\u010dasto i\u00a0nepr\u00edjemn\u00e9, ak zrazu zasad\u00e1 \u201erodinn\u00e1 rada\u201c a\u00a0rie\u0161ia sa ich pre\u0161\u013eapy \u010di probl\u00e9my. U\u00a0det\u00ed si treba budova\u0165 d\u00f4veru postupne ak chceme, aby sa n\u00e1m otvorili. Pokia\u013e to budeme robi\u0165 systematicky a\u00a0spr\u00e1vne a\u00a0budeme si budova\u0165 vz\u00e1jomn\u00fd priate\u013esk\u00fd vz\u0165ah pln\u00fd l\u00e1sky, pochopenia a\u00a0vz\u00e1jomnej d\u00f4very a\u00a0\u00facty, ur\u010dite sa n\u00e1m aj na\u0161e dospievaj\u00face deti \u013eah\u0161ie zd\u00f4veria so v\u0161etk\u00fdm, \u010do ich te\u0161\u00ed alebo naopak tr\u00e1pi.Nezabudnime:\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 budujme si s\u00a0de\u0165mi d\u00f4vern\u00fd vz\u0165ah od mali\u010dka\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u010dasto sa rozpr\u00e1vajme o\u00a0v\u0161etkom mo\u017enom\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 prejavme z\u00e1ujem o\u00a0v\u0161etko, \u010do robia a\u00a0\u010do n\u00e1m chc\u00fa poveda\u0165\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 netla\u010dme na nich, ak sa nechc\u00fa rozpr\u00e1va\u0165, ale dajte im najavo svoj z\u00e1ujem\u00a0Ve\u013ea rodi\u010dov m\u00e1 strach, \u017ee sa ich die\u0165a dostane do zlej partie alebo sa d\u00e1 na zl\u00e9 chodn\u00ed\u010dky. To v\u0161etko je mo\u017en\u00e9, preto\u017ee doba je zl\u00e1. Ale ak si je rodi\u010d vedom\u00fd toho, \u017ee dal svojmu die\u0165a\u0165u t\u00fa najlep\u0161iu v\u00fdchovu a\u00a0v\u0161tepoval mu spr\u00e1vne hodnoty, m\u00f4\u017ee si by\u0165 ist\u00fd, \u017ee sa to prejav\u00ed. Preto\u017ee \u201edobr\u00e9 z\u00e1klady\u201c s\u00fa v\u017edy tie najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161ie.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.7\/5 - (9 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Cesta do hlb\u00edn pubertiakovej du\u0161e&#8230;","item":"https:\/\/www.adoos.sk\/cesta-do-hlbin-pubertiakovej-duse\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]